Wants or Needs? Dylan and the Stones on Sales

If you’re in sales or business development, you’ve probably heard the distinction between wants and needs. What’s the difference?  And what’s the role of each to someone buying?

I checked with the well-known sales consulting firm of Jagger, Richards & Dylan.

You Can’t Always Get What You Want

Never mind Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, let’s talk about Mick Jagger’s. After all, this was the 100th greatest song of all time; whereas Maslow, as far as I know, never even made the Billboard Charts.

The tagline is “but if you try sometimes you might find you get what you need.” In other words, wants are higher, deeper and often more unattainable than needs.

There’s more than one way to define the difference between wants and needs, but I’ll settle for the definition used by the Greatest Rock ‘n Roll Band in history. But if that’s not good enough for you – wait, there’s more!

Bob Zimmerman, Salesman

Bob Dylan, from Blonde on Blonde, also wrote about sales:

An’ she says, ‘Your debutante just knows what you need; but I know what you want!

Stuck Inside of Mobile, with the Memphis Blues Again

Dylan and Jagger are pouring from the same bottle. Here too, the idea of one’s wants transcend that of one’s needs.

Needs are tangible things we’ve got to have, necessary conditions: toothpaste, bicycles, audits, CRM systems. Wants are aspirational: hopes, wishes, dreams, desires, visions.

The Roles of Wants and Needs

Which should you sell to? What do buyers relate to? The right answer (it’s remarkable how often this is the right answer to seeming quandaries) is “both, at different points.”

Here are a few hints.

1.    People buy with the heart, then rationalize it with the brain.

In other words, sell the wants and let everyone talk about the needs they resolved by making that decision. The wants are dealt with more personally, arm-around-shoulder; the needs are what you tell the purchasing committee after the fact about why you did the deal.

2.    People prefer to buy what they need from those who understand what they want.

In other words, if you’re going to sell stuff that people need, first tap into their wants. You don’t even have to give them what they want, you just have to be someone who can tap into it. That makes you a seller someone wants to buy from.  The greatest exponent of this idea, I find, was Bill Brooks (see my interview with his son Jeb).

Basically, you need to touch people on both fronts.

  • If you only sell to needs, you’re a features-only kind of person limited to competing on price.
  • If you sell only based on wants, you might do well in designer bricks or perfume, but forget about selling complex systems.

Be well-rounded. Listen to both the Stones and Dylan.  Until you do, you’re just Blowin’ in the Wind, and will get No Satisfaction in sales.

What I’m Reading: Two New Books on Sales

I’m reading a lot lately. Some of it’s more out-there, some of it’s rock-solid business. Two books that fall into the latter category are Jack Malcolm’s Bottom-Line Selling, and Andy Paul’s Zero-Time Selling. Both are good – what’s important is why.

Bottom-Line Selling

Do you pay attention to the blurbs on the back of the book? Many people don’t, but I do. I think who is talking about you says a lot about who you are. It’s why I’m so terribly proud of the names on our own just-published book.

David Brock wrote the forward to Bottom-Line Selling, so I immediately took it seriously. And rightly so.

I expected a book with a few good insights, but this book fits another category: the all-you-need-to-know about a topic category. And the topic is understanding your customer’s business.

That is a huge topic. In theory it’s endless; you can never know all there is to know about your customer. In practice, most salespeople give up way too soon. So an all-you-need-to-know book must balance boiling the ocean with accepting appearances only. Malcolm does this admirably.

This is a high-content book. It’s a bit of a mini-MBA course. It begins by defining value in financial and customer terms, and telling you very precisely where to look to find it. It goes on to address key concepts like efficiency and effectiveness, again using broad but very sharp definitions. It ends by giving practical, high level advice on how to sell value, and who to talk to.

More could be, and has, been written about all this. But if you want a single reference book to help define your entire approach to selling, I think this one is a strong candidate. Thumbs up.

Zero-Time Selling

Andy Paul, in Zero-Time Selling, has written a different book – one that takes a concept and drives it across the entire field of sales. The concept is responsiveness – a subject that is increasing in relevance, and has applications across the entire chain of sales activities.

Andy introduces us to MILT – an avatar, but more importantly, an acronym. It stands for Maximum Impact in the Least Time possible. MILT is about responsiveness – which is not just about speed, but about relevant content. The race goes, increasingly, to those who can be maximally responsive.

This makes sense to me. Let’s say you find two providers on the web:

  • Provider 1. Site looks great, but thin on information. You decide to call, not email, because you’re in a hurry. You leave a message, get an automated mail, a first response the next day, and in 2-3 days you end up with a semi-customized proposal.
  • Provider 2. Site is loaded with relevant information, leading to a critical question for you. You click on “talk now,” and are connected with an intelligent person. You get an answer to your critical question, and that raises an issue you hadn’t thought of. You get directed to a relevant online page, and talk to another person. By the end of the call – 45 minutes – you are clear enough to make a decision. And you probably do.

Those are my examples, not Paul’s. In fact, he goes way beyond my simplistic cases and offers aggressive concepts and mindsets, and Ten Simple Solutions to make it work.

He’s not kidding. Paul says things like, “Fast means now; everything else is slow.” Want an anology? Think last year’s US football’s national collegiate championship, between Oregon and Auburn – both teams devotees of the no-huddle offense. Speed kills, as in, “Speed kills the competition.”

His Ten Simple Solutions cut a wide swath which include: Follow up 100% of Sales Leads, Do Everything Now, and Start Small. I don’t agree with every little thing he suggests but that’s quibbling.

Andy Paul makes a strong case for the power that comes from delivering the real deal fast. And, to his great credit, he suggests it is at least equal part mindset as well as process and skill-set. I can’t think of a business for which this rigorous thought exercise is not powerfully relevant.

The Dos and Don’ts of Trust-Based Networking

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DRUMROLL PLEASE…Announcing Our Licensee in Scandinavia: Garde Inc.

Business is global. Culture is local. And trust is universally needed to do business in today’s increasingly impersonal world. So, it is with delight that I announce our new affiliate in Scandinavia, Garde Inc.

We met with the amazing folks of Garde Inc., a newly formed consulting firm, at one of our trainings in London earlier this year, and were blown away by the level of intelligence, energy and insight these folks bring to their work. All experienced consultants, they work to bring organizations both the knowledge to change minds and the practices to change behaviors–and all this shows up on their clients’ bottom lines. Garde Inc. brings the trusted advisor perspective into their consulting areas of Product, Projects and Process.

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The Role of Procurement as Trusted Advisor to Management

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Summary

Procurement’s journey from transactional processing to strategic business partnering is not complete.  Many argue it has even stalled. Some personal successes are evident, but they are individual achievements, not an organisational model that can be copied. 

We argue that this should surprise no one.  There are too many unresolved conflicts between the role of procurement and its internal clients, and that the savings metrics used by Procurement belong to a former age and aggravate the problem.   Where good relationships exist, they do so between individuals who trust each other in spite of these conflicts.  We argue that trust is fundamental and essential in the type of relationship that Procurement is aiming for, but that the metrics and governance used by Procurement are antithetical to its aims. 

Procurement has pushed hard to attract brighter and better staff but research shows that capability is not enough.  A genuine understanding of and concern for clients’ ambitions and goals is needed: Procurement needs to be benevolent as well as capable in the way it works with clients

Six distinct areas of conflict demonstrate how Procurement’s targets and metrics serve to defeat its strategic aims, and to undermine the work it invests in building capabilities.  These include incentives to engage late with vendors, to over-specify requirements, and even to shrink a business rather than grow it.

We conclude that there is a need for an alternative to Savings as the main reporting metric for Procurement; the one we recommend is Spend Control Index.  This isn’t a completely new concept, but very few organisations set out to use it rigorously as their primary indicator of Procurement’s performance.   In the authors’ view, doing so would catalyse a change in behaviour and encourage real trust–leading to the strategic business partnerships all parties desire.

Tensions in the Realm of Procurement

Procurement today is a complex management service, intended to support the strategic aims of the organisation.  However, some of Procurement’s intended customers are confused about its role and intentions–and hence don’t trust its motives.  This is only partially due to customers’ misunderstandings; a good bit of it is Procurement’s own fault.   Whilst presenting itself as a strategic business partner, some purchasing practices are in fact tactical–and worse yet, self-serving.

This creates a trust issue with Procurement’s clientele—both internally and externally.  In a day and age where collaboration is a strategic must, unnecessary tensions created between an organisation’s own business and functional units are strategically relevant and financially harmful.

Kinnaird and Movius, arguing for a more sophisticated approach to negotiations observed that, “On the one hand, business leaders…want to be able to sit down and talk freely with their counterparts, shaping deals and exploring potential options. On the other hand, we have procurement attempting to constrain dialogue within a process that it insists on controlling, seemingly fearful of the very relationships that business leaders want to cultivate.[i]

The reasons for lack of trust show up mainly in Procurement’s target metrics and the way in which Procurement reports them.  The metrics are excessively focused on savings, even when those savings are secondary or cannot be measured.  While savings are a proper target for certain cost-down programs, the aggregated total of savings is a misleading performance indicator: its acceptance and use create perverse incentives.

Deeper down, these tensions are an outcome of two distinct views of Procurement: one rooted in transactions, another based on relationships.  Both views are necessary; but the inability to distinguish between the two as the situation demands creates dysfunction.

We suggest that a solution lies in better defining Procurement’s transactional vs. relationship responsibilities.  We offer such a view, as well as a metric for control over external spend.  This is a performance indicator superior to cost savings.  Accepting this as an over-riding objective would align Procurement with its customers, create trust, and make it a truly strategic partner.

Context: the Changing Role of Procurement

Procurement has three broad functions.

  1. The first is managing internal transactionsfor ordering and receiving goods and services, and handling procurement data.  The primary goal here is to maximise the efficiency of transaction-flow and reporting.
  2. The second is support for vendor engagement and contracting processes.   Procurement’s roots are in regular price negotiations for raw materials, packaging, tools, consumables, components and other regular purchases.  It is largely a tactical and transaction-focussed process.
  3. The third area is “value-based strategic procurement that can translate into bottom line improvements to the corporation …to ensure that the Procurement strategy is aligned with, and that it rolls-up to, the overall corporate strategy.”[ii]

The Internet has created massive opportunities for driving efficiency in the first two functions—from automating order processes to establishing online, blinded bid systems, for example.  These have the lion’s share of attention in the general management press.  However, apart from that, the essence of the first two roles has not substantively changed.

It is in the third role that procurement has attempted a metamorphosis[iii], in several ways:

  1. Procurement is increasingly responsible for buying non-traditional services such as consultancy, audit, training, and legal.
  2. Procurement now challenges specifications developed by its own internal customers–and in some cases, even the basic need for a purchase.
  3. It may draft or even own the organisation’s strategy for buying goods and services with high transaction volumes, such as travel, office supplies and MRO (maintenance, repair and operation).  In some cases
  4. It may support or lead outsourcing projects.

This change, with half of [Procurement departments] looking after marketing spend and more than two-thirds in charge of professional services, suggests an increase not only in their responsibility, but also in influence at a strategic level. It also suggests a shift towards an increasing responsibility for people-related buying[iv]

General Managers and the public still tend to think of Procurement as being essentially about bargaining.  But it now aims to create value and even competitive advantage on behalf of its internal customers in all activities relating to vendors, according to this received wisdom.  But has its outlook matured sufficiently to match these responsibilities? And how do its customers see it?

Schiele & McCue[v] describe two main traits that determine the level of meaningful involvement that a purchasing department can have with client departments. They are:

  1. Ability: the extent to which the purchasing department has the requisite expertise and ability to benefit the client department
  2. Benevolence: the extent to which the purchasing department is concerned about the needs and interests of the client department

Chief Procurement Officers (CPOs) have invested heavily in staff and training in order to build expertise and achieve the first trait.  But both traits must be present if client departments are to have trust in the purchasing department; and there is evidence that benevolence has not been addressed with the same rigour as ability.  [Italics show terms used in the original paper by Schiele & McCue].

The problems of tactics, conflict and trust arise when Procurement’s traditional, tactical roles are confused with the strategic position it wants to be in.  This typically happens in the realm of performance measurement.

Six Areas of Conflict

There are six areas in which confusion between the traditional tactical role and the new strategic role arises, and which in turn lead to conflict.

1. Price vs. Value Assessments

Procurement often helps internal customers (budget owners) to understand a need better, identify the best goods and services for that need, and undertake cost/benefit analyses for different solutions. When there are more factors to consider than price alone, Procurement uses weighted criteria to evaluate the best offer.  Customers often appreciate this help.

However Procurement’s target, as well as the annual assessments of its managers, is based mainly on achieved savings, so they have an incentive to push hardest on price rather than other factors that contribute to value.  The effect is that intentions are unclear, incentives are mixed, and customers are confused, even resentful.

2. Market-based Solutions

There is an instinct in Procurement to challenge price through competitive tendering.  This is based on a faith in the rational outcomes of markets dealing with common (commoditized) goods.    The aim of procurement then is often to formalise the requirements, remove subjectivity, and bring the service as close to a commodity as possible[vi] [vii].  It’s a great theory and hard to argue against – if it did not conflict with the way people actually make purchase decisions.

In practice, we as humans indeed use rational criteria in the screening part of a down-selection process, in order to create a short-list of suppliers, all of whom are qualified to provide the required goods or services.  But then we tend to look the supplier candidates in the eye to decide which one we would like to deal with; this final selection stage is less cognitively-defined and less tangible.  Senior managers are paid to make judgements, and they do so.

Procurement’s aim is typically to commoditise all goods and services so as to remove intangibles like trust from the vendor-selection process.  This works well in the first phase of screening, where those are unarguable virtues.  In this phase, we want an empirical, fact-based process in which the vendor is selected by weighted criteria, set against price.

But when it comes to the selection phase, client managers want to explore a relationship with the final candidates and test their own comfort level before moving forward.  This is a decision model that’s entirely different from the rational, screening process.  There’s nothing wrong with this conflict, but it is one that many Procurement staff fail to deal with because of their focus on the traditional, tactical transaction processes.

3. Explicit vs. Implicit Contracts[viii]

Explicit contracts are written and formal.  Implicit contracts are not: they are usually created during a working relationship and are based on trust.  Often the two go together: the explicit contract is agreed between the organisations at the start; and implicit deals, based on trust, develop between individuals working together.

Procurement, reflecting its transactional responsibilities, worries about cosy relationships that circumvent the formal buying process; but it may fail to recognise that implicit deals are essential – and try to over-formalise.

It may even go further, towards the deliberate exploitation of a vendor’s trust and the breaking of implicit deals.  For instance, a vendor may invest in production capacity and stock to provide reliability that justifies a price premium, only to find that the business is tendered to the lowest bidder.  Such a case represents a tragic triumph of the tactical—taking pride in counting transactional battles won – at the expense of a war lost on relationships.

4. Strategic Discussions

Chief Procurement Officers say their staff should become involved in projects earlier and more strategically, in order that they can drive efficiencies and cost avoidance during the planning and design stages of projects, not just during final vendor negotiations.  They recruit and develop purchasing managers with higher-level skills, who can work strategically with their clients’ functional leadership teams.

But these strategic discussions raise a tension when it comes to measuring performance, a tension that is frequently ignored. Procurement performance is typically measured by cost savings.  This is what many clients assume as obvious Truth, and many CPOs don’t offer an alternative.  Unfortunately, pursuing strategic objectives can lower the possible range of savings targets.  Here’s how.

At first, everyone agrees on the value of early, strategic engagement.  It creates clarity of the business issue, sharper specifications, more appropriate technical solutions, and earlier screening-out of unsuitable suppliers.  But this narrows the delta which Procurement is able to report as a saving.  With a smaller number of qualified suppliers, the gap between the highest and lowest bidder is reduced and it is even possible that the highest bidder offers the best overall value.  How, if they are rewarded mainly on savings, is the Procurement Manager incentivised to invest time and effort in strategy?

Until 2009, Procurement departments accepted (or conspired to ignore?) this paradox.  However, as the financial crisis hit, many CPOs told their staff to focus on tactical savings and to forget the strategy.  The switch in approach confused many clients and reinforced perceptions that Procurement was, after all, a tactical service.

5. Contrived Calculations

Continued use of transaction-based metrics to evaluate strategic objectives can lead to serious gaming of the system.  For example, procurement savings on raw materials can be translated into P&L accounts only if there are on-going purchases and like-for-like unit-price comparisons.  Often, however, this is not the case, so Procurement looks for reportable savings in:

    1. The difference between two quotes
    2. External benchmarks
    3. Internal changes (e.g. job cuts)
    4. Other benefits (e.g. production efficiencies, waste reduction, reduced working capital)

These calculations have a subjective element but they are nevertheless aggregated with unit-price reductions, to create the headline number reported by the CPO.

Reported savings also address only the areas that Procurement chooses to report.  A price rise (a negative saving?) is likely to go unreported.  And there is an incentive for Procurement managers to harvest savings the way farmers harvest hay, allowing the crop to grow longer in order to get a better yield.  Procurement managers may see larger reportable savings from areas that previously they have creatively neglected!

One Head of Group Procurement reported hopefully to a seminar[ix],  “The single reason for us being credible, for us gaining strategic and professional status within the business is nailing the notion of whether something is a genuine cost saving or a made-up number”.   In order to achieve this, Procurement departments may report savings under three headings: hard savings based on unit price reductions; cost avoidance, e.g. from demand reduction; and value-add, from additional business benefits without increased spend.  In the opinion of the authors, these acknowledge the weakness of savings reporting without offering a more useful alternative.

Realistically, most executives know that a CPO’s reported aggregate savings number is not real.  But they accept that cost reductions are generally desirable and should be encouraged.  So they offer praise to the CPO, and pretend that the reported savings are meaningful.  After all, they may think to themselves, there is little to be gained by scepticism.

This back-and-forth game is played with both parties insisting that they believe in rational, quantitative, measurable results, but with each vaguely knowing that the numbers are fudged.  This lends a hypocritical, even cynical, flavour to the relationship between Procurement and management–to the detriment of both.

6. Operating Budgets vs. Strategic Spending

Some organisations translate savings into budget cuts, especially those where Procurement reports through Finance.

Not surprisingly, managers may be disinclined to accept support from Procurement if their operating budget is reduced as a consequence.  Whilst these budget-owning managers did not previously voice their doubts openly about the unreliability of Procurement’s reported savings, it may be a different matter when their own budget is threatened in order to deliver Procurement’s bonuses.  To a client, it seems that Procurement’s aim is to always to shrink the business.

All six of these areas of conflict have one thing in common.  They arise because there is a single metric on which Procurement expects to be measured and which it emphasises above everything else when presenting its performance and promoting its value to the organisation: the aggregate total cost reductions across all of its activities, savings.

But savings have no value to other business units (though we duly note the value to financial stakeholders).  Regarding the management of the organisation, the only practical use to which the reported savings total can be put is the reward of procurement staff.     It does not help or guide decision-making in any other function; it does not inform the ‘what’ or the ‘how’ of management team decisions.  It stands alone, detached from everything else in the organisation; related only to the previously reported savings total.

When the CPO reports the aggregated savings total, she or he compares it only to two things:

  1. The previously reported total
  2. The volume of extra sales that would be required to deliver the same value to the bottom line.

Neither is likely to engage the management team positively, still less win their hearts and minds.

The Procurement Dilemma

The net of these six areas of conflict is that Procurement faces a dilemma.  By history and tradition, it focuses on managing transactions and increasing internal efficiencies of internal processes. The relevant measure for such a role is a focus on hard savings.

At the same time, Procurement’s increasingly successful self-elevation into strategic partnerships endangers its reliable sources of hard savings.  And since no one—including CPOs—has effectively argued for a new and discrete metric, unresolved arguments and confusion abound.  The role has changed, but the measurement has stayed the same–and no one has stated the problem clearly enough to permit resolution.

CPOs may deny this, but evidence is clear.  When interviewing Procurement managers about where they invest their time, they say they have to focus on reporting short-term savings.  Running a tender or auction is a quick and efficient use of their time: it delivers easily reportable savings and meets their targets.

On the other hand, identifying better business processes and becoming involved in change management are time-consuming and high risk.  In a cost-reduction climate, ‘You don’t need a weatherman / To know which way the wind blows’[x] so strategy loses out. This is the message that Procurement teams are getting: ‘Strategy is a nice-to-have, but when the chips are down, we are measured on savings.’

A Better Way

The solution is two-sided.  One part is a better understanding of the emerging role of Procurement, and the dual function it must perform.  The other part is the metrics, a particularly powerful tool in Procurement.

Because the very nature of performance assessment for Procurement is so quantitative, it may be useful to put the “cart before the horse” and focus on a revised metric as the most powerful lever for change.

It would be naive to stop reporting aggregate savings if there were nothing to put in its place.  But there is a move towards a different key performance indicator – one that has more credibility, can be supported by Internal Audit, and that aligns Procurement with the interests of its internal clients.  It allows procurement organizations to build the trust they need in order to become a strategic partner.

That indicator is Spend Control Index (SCI).  It is not completely new and some organisations have something close, called Spend under Management, with the nice acronym, SUM.   Instead of focusing on a spend area only when a purchase is imminent – and restricting reporting to those areas they have actively worked in – the aim is to make Procurement accountable for all spend.  Not just for the spend that can be easily seen and measured, but for a top-down calculation of external spend, derived from turnover, adjusted for salaries, earnings, interest, extraordinary activities, depreciation and working capital.

Using this base (100% of spend), Procurement identifies the proportion where spend is actively and fully managed by Procurement according to a strategy agreed with the business.   This article does not define the calculation of Spend Control Index as it may vary from one organisation to another; but we can identify factors that could be used as the basis of an audit.  After assessing the monitoring and control systems, an auditor would examine items of spend from different functional areas and supply channels.  By checking the level of control and compliance in each, they can sign-off on the Spend Control Index claimed by the Procurement department.  Key indicators of control for each item of spend include:

    • Is there an identified Procurement manager with accountability for ensuring that the item is efficiently and effectively sourced and that purchase transactions follow the correct channels?  Is this person recognised by the business as the point of escalation for purchasing issues?
    • Is the item covered by a Procurement strategy that is documented, less than twelve months old, and formally agreed with the budget owner?
    • Is there an internal communications document to inform users how to acquire the goods or services?   Are users instructed on how to find this document, how to deal with the vendor and how to escalate issues?
    • Is there an identified manager who is accountable for ensuring that the item is delivered and used according to the agreement and in line with business requirements?  This person may be called a contract manager, vendor manager or service manager and they are usually line-managed by the budget owner, rather than being in the Procurement department.
    • Are the correct procurement channels and transactions being used?

Reporting the proportion of total spend that is under control gets real attention from the executive team and relegates tactical savings to second place.  Maximising the Spend Control Index is more easily aligned with business objectives; and Internal Audit can check its measurement.  It is not even necessary for Procurement to manage everything hands-on.  In the same way that Corporate Counsel is accountable for an organisation’s legal compliance, but does not have to be present in every business meeting, Procurement’s role no longer needs to be so interfering.

Increasing Trust in the Procurement Function

If an organisation wants Procurement to manage its cost base strategically it must help it to escape from the rut of transactional models, and from the exclusive use of tactical savings as its main performance indicator.  Savings are a good metric for individual projects but, as an aggregate overall measure of performance, they are misleading and lead to perverse behaviours.

A function trapped by such a metric is unlikely to become a trustworthy partner to the rest of the organisation.  A trustworthy partner should be evaluated in terms of the benefits it can bring through being trusted more broadly.  The alignment of goals and metrics, through adoption of a Spend Control Index, will itself contribute to greater trust of Procurement staff, as well as in the system.

For continued reading check out: Trust-Based Negotiation

Endnotes


[i] T Kinnaird and H Movius “Avoiding the Three Deadly Sins” CPO Agenda Autumn 2008”

[ii] J Mahoney & G Stoller, “Strategic vs. Tactical Procurement – Shifting Focus Towards Value Creation” July 2009 http://www.slideshare.net/jamie.mahoney/tactical-vs-strategic-procurement-shifting-focus-towards-value-creation

[iii] A Moorhouse, “Insight into the changing role of the procurement professional”  (Bradford University School of Management) 2006

[iv] S Bagshaw (Editor), “Direct vs. Indirect Procurement – Market Intelligence Survey”.  (Supply Management & buying Team) September 2009

[v] JJ Schiele and CP McCue, ‘Professional service acquisition in public sector procurement: A conceptual model of meaningful involvement.’  International Journal of Operation and Production, Vol 26, 3 pp 300-325.  2006

[vi] J Bloom, “Agencies and Media Brands Turning Into Commodities” (Advertising Age) http://adage.com/columns/  22 June 2009,

[viii] J Kay, “Foundations of Corporate Success” (Oxford)  Chapter 4, Relationships & Contracts

[ix] S Santarelli “Cost Savings in the Spotlight“ (Procurement Intelligence Unit) 24 September 2009 www.procurement-iu.com/ Internet publication

[x] B Dylan “Subterranean Homesick Blues” Columbia Records [catalogue 43242] 1965

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We’re about halfway through our countdown of Trust Tips leading up to the release of  “The Trusted Advisor Fieldbook: A Comprehensive Toolkit for Leading with Trust,” a new book written by the two of us—Charles H. Green  and Andrea P. Howe—to be published by Wiley Books, on October 31, 2011.

We try to keep our tips applicable to nearly every workday. That way you can apply them now and see positive results quickly.

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But as Twitter isn’t for everyone and as we don’t want to leave anyone out in the cold we also keep a running list of the tips here on the site—see below:

If you need to catch up, see our recaps of Tips:

Below are the most recent, Tips #80-75

#80: Two sure trust-killers: a tendency to blame, and an inability to confront

#79: Name one trigger or fault you have; decide how to coopt it

#78: Don’t interrupt. If you do, apologize. Even if you’re a New Yorker.

#77: Did you just name-drop? Why? Who did it help? Check your motives

#76: Call your client once in awhile just to find out how he/she is

#75: Reduce your APM count (acronyms per minute)

#74: If you can’t present it without PowerPoint, go work on your presentation skills

#73: Spend time in your client’s shoes–imagine what it’s like to be him/her; role play with a colleague

#72: Cultivate an attitude of curiosity–think in advance about what questions you want to ask

#71: Try doing your thinking out loud; with your client. Don’t hide it away.

A Couple of Our Favorites

#72: Cultivate an attitude of curiosity–think in advance about what questions you want to ask.

In much of our professional life, our dominant attitude is one of self-focus.  We may be worried, or excited, or intent—but in all such cases, we are self-absorbed.  But the key to success in much of our professional life is to be outward-facing, customer-focused, other-oriented. Fine, you say—but how do you do that?

One way to do it is to cultivate an attitude of curiosity. You can cultivate it by intentionally setting aside time to wonder—wonder why this situation is so, and why things work that way, and where this other thing first came from.  Wondering can lead to questions, and once you have questions, you have a great basis for an other-oriented conversation.

You can make curiosity a habit that way; a habit that results in an attitude. And an attitude results in behaviors that are client-focused.  Your clients will notice.

#80: Two sure trust-killers: a tendency to blame, and an inability to confront

Phil McGee coined this one, and we love it.  Blame—the tendency to deflect bad news onto others, while disproportionately taking credit ourselves.  Blame violates several principles—it is greedy and self-oriented, but it is also deceitful, since it incorrectly assigns responsibility.

The flip side is an inability to confront.  If you can’t constructively confront issues, you can’t speak the truth.  And if you can’t speak the truth, you can’t be trusted.  Note that you don’t have to be brutal to be a truth-teller, that’s not much better than sugar-coating.  But with good intent and careful communication, you can nearly always speak to any issue truthfully.

If you can do that, you can be transparent, open, and have direct and powerful conversations with everyone.  And if you can constructively confront, by the way, there is no longer much reason to blame.

 

Still Afraid of the Sales Monster Under the Bed?

I was still afraid of the Sales Monster Under the Bed when I was 32.

I was 6 years into my career in management consulting.  It was becoming clear that the road to advancement no longer lay in more expertise. Instead, it lay in what was euphemistically called “business development.”

I was no dummy. I knew what “business development” meant: the dreaded Sales Monster.

Business Development, the Euphemism

You know something’s wrong when people cloak a supposedly reputable activity in the passive voice. If they couldn’t even look you in the face when they said “business development,” it proved they really meant “sales.”  Blech.

I knew I had to do business development.  But what was it?  And what was the least horrific way to go about it?

You know the list:

  • Write white papers
  • Write articles
  • Network
  • Go to industry association meetings
  • Make cold calls
  • Explore existing client relationships
  • Do mailings
  • Send holiday cards.

Holiday cards felt a little intrusive. At least white papers relied on expertise. The other steps were too horrible to contemplate.

The Sales Monster

In retrospect, my fear of sales was self-fear, aided by the intangible nature of professional services.  Lawyers, accountants and actuaries, I later found, all suffered from the same malaise.

It just all felt so personal. I had joined consulting because it seemed a meritocratic society of the intellect. The implied promise was I’d get rewarded for being smart.

That promise was being broken. Suddenly it was personal. Clients weren’t just buying expertise, they were buying me. Or not. That wasn’t just unfair, it violated my belief that content mattered.

Worst of all, of course, was if they didn’t buy. It was hard to rationalize a loss; it meant, ineluctably that They Didn’t Like Me. I understood Sally Fields’ Oscar acceptance speech very well.

Vanquishing the Sales Monster

It took me 15 more years to realize that every thought I’d had about sales was wrong. And it was more a process than an epiphany.  There were a few books along the way that helped:

But it was more life experiences than books that changed my view.  If you come right down to it—I had to grow up.  I had to develop and change as a person in order to understand the keys to sales.

I had to recognize the ultimately paradoxical nature of sales: the best way to sell is to stop trying to sell, and to focus instead on helping others get what they wanted.

Learning the Truth

You cannot learn this truth by reading this blog. Or by reading any book or article. You probably won’t learn it from anyone telling you.  It seems to me that we all learn things the hard way—from our own experience.  And my experience is that hard lessons, negative examples, bad experiences, are better teachers than good ones. Sad but true.

But sometimes, someone can say something in a way that makes it click for you.  It can pull together your own learnings and make a light bulb a little brighter. And that can help a lot.

So, here’s my own Top Twelve list of ways that I found to say something that I found meaningful. I hope one of them can turn on a little light bulb for you.

12 Insights on Trust-Based Selling
    1. Closing the Book on Closing
    2. Handling Sales Rejection Without Becoming a Narcissist
    3. How Sales Contests Kill Sales
    4. I Can’t Make You Love Me If You Don’t
    5. Sales, Narcissism and Therapists
    6. Selling Professional Services
    7. 10 Myths About Selling Professional Services [pdf]
    8. What Clients Really Want
    9. What to Say When the Client Says Your Price is Too High [pdf]
    10. When to Ditch the Elevator Speech and Take the Escalator or the Stairs
    11. Why Nobody Cares About You (and You Should be Glad They Don’t!)
    12. Why Should We Buy From You?  Good Question! [pdf]

If you’d like more help in vanquishing your own sales monster, you can also consult my book Trust-Based Selling (as the Trust-Based Selling print edition or the  Trust-Based Selling ebook for Kindle).

If the Sales Monster still lives under your bed, remember: it doesn’t have to be that way.

Managing For Trust

Supposed you asked me the score of the latest Boston Red Sox vs. New York Yankees game, and I told you “12.”

You: Twelve? What kind of score is that?

Me: Twelve points were scored in the game; you asked the score, that’s it.

You: Well, who scored how many?

Me: New York scored 7 and Boston scored 5.

You: Well thanks; you could have led with that!

Silly. But that’s exactly what happens with trust metrics. People say, “Trust in business is down.” Cue the dialogue.

You: Trust is down? What kind of metric is that?

Me: Well, some people trust less, some businesses are less trustworthy; the net is down.

You: Wait: how much of the “down” is made up of people trusting less; and how much of the “down” is made up of business being less trustworthy?

Me: 73% of it is business being less trustworthy; 27% of it is people being less inclined to trust.

You: Well thanks; you could have led with that!

Are you trying to improve trust in your organization? You might want to start with clarifying the problem you’re trying to fix.

Are you trying to create more trustworthy employees and managers, so that customers and other stakeholders will trust you? Then focus on the personal attributes of trustworthy people, and on the kinds of principles and values that are observed in trustworthy companies.

Or are you trying to get your people more willing to trust others? Getting better at trusting means better risk management, delegation, personal growth, people development and innovation, to name a few benefits.

What is it that you are trying to manage?

Never mind, “You can’t tell the players without a scorecard.” Heck, you can’t tell the score without knowing what game you’re playing!

Showdown at the Used Car Corral

They wanted to sell a used truck. My son wanted to buy one for his business. He asked me to come along to help negotiate.

An enticing ad had gotten us onto their lot. At this point, the truck was pretty much pre-sold. All that was left was to agree on a price that worked for my son, and to pass our mechanic’s inspection. Done deal.

That is…until they decided they had to sell us.

My son was an eager buyer. But instead of asking my son about his business, or even why he wanted the truck, the salesman was all about getting the sale.

The Negotiation

It started with a little lie: “There’s another customer looking at that truck now”

This annoyed my son. Claiming scarcity only works when it’s true. The only other folks on the lot were looking at cars, not trucks.

Then the salesman began to negotiate price. It turns out that the trade-in value was within my son’s range, but my son wanted a lower final price. After some discussion, the price went down a little and then I gave our bottom line number. It was ok. The salesman then stuck out his hand and said: “This is our final price. Deal?”

The “presumptive close,” accompanied by a smug smile. It just didn’t work.

He was all about trying to sell a truck; he couldn’t see this was about my son buying one.

Despite his eagerness, my son ignored the salesman’s attempt to close. We said he’d buy if the price was really final, with no additional document prep fee–and, we still needed our mechanic to look at the truck.

“EVERYONE pays the documentation fee,” said the salesman.

Funny; after more discussion, the price was reduced by the amount of the fee. Then came the final issue – our mechanic’s approval.

“Our policy is that we don’t let cars leave the lot for mechanic’s inspections. Very few of our customers even ask to have cars looked at by their own mechanics,” said the salesman.

My son called our mechanic from the lot. The mechanic said he’d never heard of a dealer taking that position.

My son got more doubtful by the minute.

The salesman explained that the reason customers aren’t concerned with having used cars seen by their own mechanic is because they buy the dealer’s extended warranty which protects them. Another follow-on service for us to buy, in other words.

We said no, and got up to leave, whereupon the salesman made another offer: “We’ll give you another $500 off.”

I said my son would pay the price without the additional $500 off, as long as the mechanic could OK the truck, but he couldn’t buy without that inspection. The response: “Do you want to put down a deposit? There’s another customer interested, and the deposit will hold it for you.”

They just weren’t listening. At this we gave up and left, disappointed and discouraged. My son really wanted to buy the truck. But we understood they had a policy, and we accepted that was endgame.

But Wait There’s More…

Then, two minutes after driving out, my son’s cell phone rang. Now the dealer was willing to bring the truck to our mechanic–a request we never even made. This last sale attempt convinced my son: “I wouldn’t buy a truck from them at all. I don’t trust them.”

A Few Simple Guidelines

How did this seller permanently lose such an eager customer? What are the lessons this dealer can learn?

  1. Just stop with the lying. Just stop it. Why do dealers lie so much?. Lying loses trust, and trust loses sales.
  2. Don’t fake scarcity. Yes it’s used a lot as a sales tactic. That doesn’t make it right.
  3. Make sure policies are grounded in some principle that is important. “You can’t take the truck to your mechanic” was a policy. And if you’re going to claim you have a policy, at least have the good sense to stick to it.
  4. Stop with the closing. Good closing happens when the buyer is ready to buy. It doesn’t happen because the seller says “deal!”
  5. Listen to your customers. Should it really be that hard?

I guess it’s not all bad. My son got to see how trusting (or not trusting) the salesman can affect a decision to buy even more than the object itself. I’m pretty glad about that.