Buy With the Heart, Justify With the Brain
People buy with the heart, and justify their decision with the brain.
I’m not the only one to make that claim (for another, try Jeffrey Gitomer).
People in “sophisticated” businesses—information technology, Wall Street, law, accounting, consulting—tend not to believe it. They think business people make business buying decisions in a rational, deductive, linear, data-based, cost-benefits kind of a process.
These people are sellers and buyers of sophisticated sales management and sales training systems. Their models are variations on “consult with a customer to find a need, get the customer to articulate it, package a solution, and show the customer how the solution fills the need.”
Fine, except it assumes:
a. The buyer can articulate the need
b. The buyer is willing to articulate the need.
Frequently, neither is true. I recall (can someone help me out on this?) a study of relocations of corporate headquarters, identifying how many moved the HQ closer to the chairman’s home, vs. how many moved it further away. Care to guess the outcome?
Educated people in powerful businesses (oil, investment banking, capital equipment) will generally tell you they make decisions based on the rational model described above.
Here is a delightful counter-example from a few years ago about an oil industry executive, making an important personal purchase decision—how to select a high-end, bespoke English tailor, courtesy of Thomas Mahon’s blog English Cut:
It’s funny how things from the past can do two things- (A) come back and haunt you, or (B) come back and help you.
Last week I measured up a new customer, who has a senior position with one of the largest and most successful oil companies in the world. He was a very charming fellow who only knew about me through reading English Cut.
He chose me not just because he felt I could give him true bespoke (which I certainly hope I can), but the deciding factor was that he is originally a Cumberland native, like myself. So that put his mind at rest. People go with who they know.
As we were discussing the final cloth choices on his two suits, we stood by the window looking out onto sunlit Savile Row and Anderson & Sheppard’s old premises. When my customer told me which line of business he was in, I remarked that when I as working at A&S I used to cut for the chairman of his company, in other words, his boss.
He than stood back in astonishment. I didn’t know if this meant he thought his boss was the best dressed man on the planet, or the worst, so I was fairly nervous there for a moment.
But then he told me the story. When he first started working with the chairman several years ago, he was in a business meeting on a private jet somewhere over the Atlantic. When my customer had finished discussing some business details, the chairman leaned over the table, took off his glasses and said, referring to his accent, “You sound just like my tailor.”
So be nice to everybody. You never know who may be talking about you.
The customer’s original “deciding factor” was the geographic origin of the tailor—a connection with his own.
The punch line, from which we conclude the tailor had a customer for life, was that the customer’s boss had also hired the tailor.
You come from my part of the world, and my boss uses you. Sold.
Lesson 1. You won’t find that one in a standard sales process model.
Lesson 2. You can’t build that one into a standard sales process model.
Lesson 3. What you can do is what Aristotle pointed out: character is a habit. Be nice, competent and of service to everyone—as a habit. Then when the uncontrollable comes around, you’ve got a reference.
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Great advice as well.