Upcoming Events 5/21/2010

After a long week of rain, we finally have some sunshine coming our way. We hope, like us, you will be enjoying fine weather this weekend and spending as much time as you can gearing up for a lovely Summer. Speaking of, here’s what we have coming up:

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Fri. June 4th          Worcester, MA          Stewart Hirsch

Stewart Hirsch will be facilitating his interactive program "How to Work a Room (and Still Feel Good About Yourself)™" for the Central Massachusetts Committee of the Women’s Bar Association. The program will be held at 12pm. No cost for the program. For more information, please contact Stewart at [email protected].

Wed. June 9th          Boston, MA          Charles H. Green

HBS Association of Boston: Charles H. Green speaks on "How to Win Sales and Influence People: the Art of Trust-based Selling." 6PM. Location: Hawes 101 on HBS Campus. Tickets available here.

Tues. Sept. 28th          Washington, DC          Andrea Howe & Charles H. Green

Save the date for Trusted Advisor’s two day program co-led by Andrea Howe and Charles H. Green. More details and official registration information to come.

A Flipswitch Moment: Blame and Control

Usually life is a continuum. But occasionally you run across one of those flipswitch moments. The trick is—are you open to them?

A friend of mine, some time ago, told me this:

My dad was an alcoholic and a smoker. We loved him and resented him at the same time, because he would be there for us one moment, and then the next moment, not at all.

Eventually he got lung cancer, and we figured that was it. I ended pretty much staying away from him during his illness; I was just too resentful. And then he had surgery, and made a completely unexpected recovery. He quit drinking and smoking, and we were delighted. Though still suspicious.

He picked smoking back up soon enough, and then the drinking. And after a few years, the illness was back, and I knew he wouldn’t beat it twice. He told me once, “You know, I’m not an alcoholic, I really could stop whenever I wanted.” I hated him for that lie. 

As the end came, I got more and more bitter about his irresponsible actions toward all of us, and his refusal to take any blame. He never apologized. I went with my siblings to see him in the hospital, but I hated it.

A nurse pulled me aside. She said, “He only has a few days left. He doesn’t have the emotional or mental energy to change at this point. If you’re waiting for your father to apologize to you for all that he’s done to you in life—now is the time to give that up. It’s never going to happen. Now the only one who can change is you.”

I shivered, because I knew she was right. The next day, I was able to forgive him. He did the best he could; it wasn’t very good, but it was his best. I told him I loved him, and I did. I was able to give up the rest. And I’ll always be grateful to that nurse for giving my future back to me.

My friend was open to the flipswitch moment.

Are you?

Jim Peterson on Trust, Ethics and Regulation (Trust Quotes #11)

Jim Peterson is almost uniquely qualified to offer perspective on a host of trust issues. 

  • An American, he has lived in Europe for many years: 
  • A lawyer by training, he was for 19 years in-house counsel for a Big 4 Accountancy:
  • A practicing lawyer, he is also a writer: he had his own column, “Balance Sheet,” in the International Herald Tribune for many years, and now actively blogs at Re:Balance :
  • He has been actively involved in issues of industry structure and regulation in both accounting and law, in several countries:

These days he does all three, plus teaching, and lives in Paris and Chicago. We caught up with him the other day from Paris:

CHG: Jim, thanks for doing this interview. You’ve got gray hair, multi-cultural experience, and multi-professional experience—plus being a student of people. What is it that professional services people, especially accountants and lawyers, are really good at? And how does that vary between Europe and the US?

JP: Professional advisers are used differently in different countries. In Europe, both accountants and lawyers are more likely to function as close and trusted advisers, to facilitate their clients’ strategies. In America, the lawyers have taken control of commerce – through detailed, bright-line rules so complex as to require their constant interpretation (but which also invite being bent or broken).

Where Europeans will do with a five-page agreement, American lawyers will churn out 100 pages (and charge accordingly).

Unfortunately, recent years show a convergence of global markets (and liability) toward the American model.

CHG: What about the accountants? What should we trust accounting firms to do, and are we reasonable in our expectations of them? Are they agents of trust-certification? Or is that just silly? And—can we trust the accounting firms themselves?

JP: The accountants have shown themselves trust-worthy within their own limits – to provide reasonable assurance, within limits of materiality, most of the time. The trouble is, and it is partly their own responsibility for over-selling, the public has come to expect and demand “zero defects” regarding their clients’ performance – which is beyond the accountants’ capability.

As a result, infrequent but highly consequential cases of sub-standard performance are serious enough to threaten their survival and the existence of their franchise as it has been structured since the 1930’s.  

CHG: Let’s get into the meaty stuff of trust at the business level. Assuming you agree there’s been a decline in trust in business and our institutions—why is that? What’s the root cause?

JP: History includes cycles of boom-and-bust, which I believe are inevitable, in part because incentives and inducements get out of line with responsibility and accountability. The disconnections of the last three years resemble the savings-and-loan debacle of the 1980’s. So for better or worse, we’re coming through one of those cycles. The cleansing process of the bust-and-recovery part of a cycle can include renewed attention to virtuous conduct – unfortunately, that tends to become diluted by less noble motives on the other side of the cycle.

CHG: Well, let’s cycle through some of the possible solutions to that pervasive loss of trust. I’ve suggested that the business schools share some responsibility, and are part of a necessary solution. What concerns do you have about the effectiveness of teaching about trust, ethics and governance in the business schools and universities?

JP: It’s my belief that much of the teaching is at best ineffective and at worst a misleading waste of time – although I am sensitive to the way this is received among my colleagues in academia. Jeff Skilling and Andy Fastow were celebrated as executives to be admired, and either one would have scored an A+ on any university-level course in ethics or governance.

My experience with 35 years of exposure to world-class corporate frauds and irregularities is that the mid-level personnel and the gate-keepers who are caught up in serious wrong-doing almost all got there through a steady and fully-rationalized bending of what were initially a perfectly fine set of ethical values.

The kinds of issues that students and newly-minted employees can comprehend, while real (plagiarism, personal over-reaching, etc.), are over-taken in the work-place by subtle but compelling pressures to perform that leave their school experiences far behind.  

CHG: Let me push back on you a bit on that one. I’ll bet you’re right that Skilling could have passed any b-school ethics test—and you’re right that Skilling was vetted not only by Harvard Business School, but by McKinsey. But Tom Peters, who knew Skilling at McKinsey, states flatly that the “smartest guy in the room” almost certainly knew his shades of gray, and consciously did what he did. That doesn’t square with the idea of a gradual erosion of “perfectly fine ethics.” If he’d encountered courses that dealt directly with ethical issues, might they not have surfaced earlier? More generally: shouldn’t MBA programs shoulder part of the blame?

JP: No academic program will affect a personality type that is bent from an early age, and Skilling and Fastow may be the exceptions that test my proposition. But – agreeing that the schools have a role and a responsibility – the issue I have with courses that “deal directly with ethical issues” is that they are labeled and telegraph their messages so transparently that they are easily gamed by those inclined to felonious intent. I would challenge the schools to do a more sophisticated job of embedding their ethical training into their mainstream curricula, where the learning opportunities are more nuanced and subtle – and thus better matched to the challenges that real life will bring.

CHG: I couldn’t agree more. Real ethics training ought to be part of the strategy classroom, not a separate curriculum down the hall, where it’s inevitably going to be demeaned and diminished. Any other advice?

JP: Having been around a lot of world-class white-collar criminals,many of whom showed signs of bad behavior at early ages, I consistently advise my clients to avoid the risk of dealing with a repeat offender. The rate of recidivism in corporate malfeasance is too high to make it worth the exposure of falling for a pitch of post-offense repentance.

CHG: So much for redemption! What is your view of the causal relationship between corporate governance codes and the demonstration of ethical or trustworthy behavior?

JP: The focus of my experience has been with the kinds of large-scale malefactions that can threaten the existence of a company – Enron or Arthur Andersen or Fannie Mae or Satyam. These are gestated and erupt at a level that transcends the effectiveness of risk management structures and codes of governance and behavior. Rather, they either occur – or do not – because of the underlying issues with and commitment of senior management to create and enforce cultures of success and of good practice.

“Doing well by doing good” is a reality, in other words. But the latter does not drive the former – instead it is an observable consequence, flowing from the same source.

CHG: So, both “good” and “well” are byproducts of a cultural devotion to doing business from a certain set of principles? Care to say something about what those principles look like?

JP: One of the finest defense lawyers I ever knew, the late Peter Fleming, had nothing but scorn for elaborate codes of behavior – governance, accounting principles, whatever. His guidance required one page: “Can you credibly defend this decision in front of a jury?”

CHG: That’s not unlike the “are you OK with it on the front page of the NY Times” rule. A willingness to submit to commonsense and common wisdom, rather than to pin one’s hopes on precisely delineated behavioral codes. Let’s switch to government’s role. What can we reasonably expect from government by way of contribution to good corporate behavior?

JP: I’m a deep skeptic on the ability of regulators to either detect or to deter bad behavior. Not that oversight and enforcement are not necessary. But it seems to me pretty clear that the post-Enron imposition of Sarbanes/Oxley did not lead to an outbreak of virtue.

Look at the many examples over the last three years, including the investor frauds (Madoff, Stanford and many others) and the civil and criminal claims arising out of the credit crisis – many of them still working their way through the courts — including New Century, Lehman Brothers, Goldman Sachs’s Abacus product, the recent Wells notice sent by the SEC to Moody’s, etc.

Law enforcement is by nature always going to be reactive, behind the curve of the inevitable misbehavior of those who would burst the limits. So although I have gotten in trouble for saying so around groups of investors, it is neither cynical nor unduly libertarian to say that investors and others in the public need to take their own responsibility to heart, and calibrate the extent of reliance they can reasonably place on their watchdogs.

It goes back in part to why societies evolve their laws and codes of behavior. People don’t become law-abiding because more laws are passed – indeed, more lawmaking often reflects a social perception that behavioral norms have broken down and require the imposition of sanctions on violators.

Rather, a society decides what limits and conventions it will accept, and its tolerance for the thresholds of deviance from those norms.

Examples: There is nothing either substantive or self-enforcing about an eight-sided red sign, but there is common agreement that it obliges drivers and pedestrians to stop. And there is shared confidence that counter-parties will do so. Other examples of socially evolved norms, as to which formal legal codes are essentially irrelevant, include:

  • The “rules” for under-age drinking on college campuses
  • The neighborhood self-enforcement on dog clean-up
  • And (as I remember in the 1970’s), the de facto legalization by the population of New York City of amateur marijuana use in Central Park. 

All of which goes in part to say that the level of achievable behavioral virtue involves a complex set of factors including trade-offs of costs and benefits and an understanding of the culture’s real system of incentives and deterrents.

CHG: You said a mouthful there. And that’s great, in terms of understanding. Then again, where does that leave us vis a vis action? Where would you suggest an informed manager should focus his or her efforts? A journalist?   A lawyer? An investor? A tax-paying, voting, citizen?

JP: Since you ask:

  • Investors – Do your own due diligence, take responsibility for your decisions, and don’t whine about being a victim;
  • Citizens – Don’t ask government to do too much, because it can’t; but insist that what it does be done very well;
  • Managers – Remember your community is far broader than shareholders alone, or your own annual bonus;
  • Journalists – Well, it’s hard to watch the degradation in quality from deepening partisanship and races for ratings. There is still a market for quality reporting and quality commentary, though, and it is exciting to think how these will be delivered through rapidly evolving channels.   

CHG: Jim, this has been a pleasure. Thanks so much for contributing to the dialogue here on the Trust Quotes series. 

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This is number 11 in the Trust Quotes series.

The entire series can be found in our Trust Quotes section on TrustedAdvisor.com

Recent posts in this series include:

Trust Quotes #10: David Gebler
Trust Quotes #9: Chris Brogan

Trust Quotes #8: LJ Rittenhouse

Does This Make My “S” Look Big? True Customer Focus

I’ve led dozens of learning programs on being a Trusted Advisor.  One thing I’ve learned: without a doubt, the most popular element of the Trust Equation is Self-Orientation.

By “popular,” I mean it’s the one most people identify as a huge opportunity for improvement. Which makes sense, since it’s deliberately placed in the denominator to highlight its ubiquitousness.

Simply defined, self-orientation is about focus. If someone says about you, “I trust that she cares about _______” and fills in the blank with something that relates to them, then your “S” is little. And that’s good.  (“I trust that she cares about how this project will impact my career”; “I trust that she cares about what’s best for the team”; “I trust that she cares about our reputation.”)

Alternatively, if the words that complete the sentence relate to you in any way shape, or form, then you’ve officially got a Big “S.” And that’s bad. 

We all know the stereotypical used car salesman – a classic “Big S” caricature. He’s disingenuous, in it for himself, armed and ready with manipulative tactics to get you to do what he wants. As I’ve come to better understand what “S” is all about, I’ve come to appreciate its subtlety. In reality, self-orientation sneaks into our interactions with others in more insidious ways. This means keeping it small can be challenging.

Think of self-orientation as referring to two levels of focus: results and needs.

High Self-Orientation Level 1: Results

Most of us are pretty clear about the results dimension–the more obvious of the two. We generally know what we should be doing to be other-focused in this regard. “Little S” strategies include:

asking lots and lots of questions from a place of curiosity to figure out what success really looks like

negotiating for true win-win,

doing the right thing, even if you’re incented otherwise. The latter includes the provocative notion of referring a client to a competitor if the competitor could do better for the customer.

“Big S” results behaviors (the bad ones, remember) include rushing to a solution, making a bad first deal, or “hoarding”—time, resources, ideas. “Gigantic S” equals stereotypical used car guy.

High Self-Orientation Level 2: Needs 

The other dimension of self-orientation is needs.The question here is whether or not you’re focused on your needs–or on theirs.

For example:

–          Are you focused on your need to look smart (and so you invoke Death by PowerPoint … or simply talk a lot) or are you focused on their need to be heard (therefore you listen without distraction, even when it’s uncomfortable to be silent for what feels like a long time)?

–          Are you focused on your need to be liked (hence you avoid confrontation—sometimes or always) or their need to have all the data required to make good decisions (meaning you’re consistently willing to speak a hard truth if it’s necessary, even when it feels awkward to do it)?

–          Are you focused on your need to be the hero (so you subtly compete for attention or recognition) or are you focused on their need to feel confident (meaning you check your ego at the door and give them the credit)?

I chose these three examples because they’re the ones I struggle with the most. Even though my “S” scores on the Trust Quotient are actually pretty low, I’m well aware of my own quirks and foibles and I work every day to manage them—sometimes with greater success than others.

What Makes My “S” Look Big? Being Human

Self-orientation rears its ugly head most often when we feel some sort of fear—fear of looking bad, fear of rejection, fear of loss. All of these fears fall into the category of perfectly normal. And they’re what make your “S” look big.

What makes a difference is having the ego strength to see it, acknowledge it, to “get off your ‘S’,” and move on.   After all, obsessing about “Big S” mistakes is just more … “Big S.”

Ah, the joys of being human.

Warren Buffet on Envy and the Seven Deadly Sins

Berkshire Hathaway held their annual bash in Omaha a few weeks ago, as delightfully reported by Laura Rittenhouse. 

As happens at that time of year, Buffet and his even-more-quotable-if-that’s-possible partner in investing, Charlie Munger, make themselves available to be interviewed. Which is where I first heard their rundown of the seven deadly sins.

Buffet: As an investor, you get something out of all the deadly sins—except for envy. Being envious of someone else is pretty stupid. Wishing them badly, or wishing you did as well as they did—all it does is ruin your day. Doesn’t hurt them at all, and there’s zero upside to it.

If you’re going to pick a sin, go with something like lust or gluttony. That way at least you’ll have something to remember the weekend for.

This isn’t just good homespun Buffet humor. It’s deeply meaningful on at least three levels.

Why Envy Is Bad For Your Investments

First of all, you can make a case that envy actually destroys your investment portfolio. Turns out Buffet and Munger have used this standup routine before, and it was brilliantly detailed five years ago in a blogpost by Sanjay Bakshi.

Basically, if you’re really knowledgeable about a business in which you can get a 19% return, but have heard about some other business in which you can get a 21% return, you’d be stupid to forsake the 19%. Which is why good investors say things like “stick with what you know.” (Buffet himself goes into more detail in his Chairman’s letter of 1993, in the section on equity investments, even quoting Mae West).

Envy, in other words, can hurt you financially.

Why Envy is Bad for Your Relationships

Buffet aside, envy and its kissing cousin resentment are equally culpable in the softer realm. Like customer relationships. Here’s why.

If you’re envious of a customer—of anyone, really–it poisons your relationships with that person. What are you envious of? Their money? Their status? Their social ease? Their romantic partner? 

Regardless of the object of your envy, your level of envy is likely to be most acute when you’re with the envied person—and particularly if the money, status, social ease or romantic partner are in play or close at hand.

In those cases, our envy oozes out of us in the most dishonest ways. We sneak furtive glances, make snide comments, look for favor, disparage the things we covet, and subtlely beg. All the while, of course, maintaining plausible deniability about what we are doing. Or so we think.

In fact, we kid only ourselves. The customer may not follow every twisted inward thought we have (why would they want to?) but they know the result. We are absent; we are not genuinely focused on them; we are obsessed by our own needs, and cannot focus on theirs.

Envy can hurt your commercial relationships.

Why Envy is Bad for Your Own Self

As if it weren’t enough that envy hurts us financially and commercially, it rots us as people too. Envy, festering, becomes resentment. The Latinate derivation of resentment is re-feeling. Feeling after the fact, revisiting the past, dwelling negatively on history—the one thing over which we have precisely no control.

Resentment is akin to playing God, groveling in the fiction that we can alter the reality of time past. It’s no accident that the 12-step program literature refers to resentment as “a grave matter,” and “the number one offender.” 

Living in resentment means you are living outside reality. Living in a fictional world between your ears just removes you from humanity, and from the moment. Alone and out of time is no good way for a human being to live.

It all starts with envy. Buffet was right. Go get you some good sins, if you must, at least there’s some pleasure in them. As to envy—as Buffet put it, there’s no upside to it.

Upcoming Events 5/14/2010

It’s Friday once again! We hope you all have a fantastic weekend. And if you want to mark your calendars–here’s what we have coming up:

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Fri. June 4th          Worcester, MA          Stewart Hirsch

Stewart Hirsch will be facilitating his interactive program "How to Work a Room (and Still Feel Good About Yourself)™" for the Central Massachusetts Committee of the Women’s Bar Association. The program will be held at 12pm. No cost for the program. For more information, please contact Stewart at [email protected].

Wed. June 9th          Boston, MA          Charles H. Green

HBS Association of Boston: Charles H. Green speaks on "How to Win Sales and Influence People: the Art of Trust-based Selling." 6PM. Location: Hawes 101 on HBS Campus. Tickets available here.

Explaining the Brain–or Not?

Way back in November 2007 there appeared an article from Salon Magazine, titled I Feel Your Pain, by Gordy Slack. It’s about the discovery of “mirror neurons.” 

As the article’s lead put it, “New proof of ‘mirror neurons’ explains why we experience the grief and joy of others, and maybe why humans are altruistic.” 

In one sense, this is a case of the emperor’s clothes. But in another, there’s something to it.

Welcome to neuro-fill-in-the-blank. Neuro-management, neuro-leadership, neuro-everything that we think of as business. The rock star of the movement is, appropriately, David Rock. 

He is not, he’s careful to point out, a neuroscientist. In fact, he’s a pretty eclectic consultant, who does a lot in coaching and leadership, but who has also hit it pretty big with the neuro-thing.

Armed with articles like November’s Salon piece, I was prepared to react negatively to his most recent book, Your Brain at Work. Having started it, I find it curiously interesting. Here’s the story.

Why Neuro-Hooey is Partly Just That

Much of the neuro-excitement is phrased in terms like the Salon article: it suggests that greater knowledge of the brain in electro-chemical terms can “explain” things better. It can help us to “know” things we somehow didn’t “know before.” But most of all, as in that Salon quote, it supposedly helps explain “why.”

Why do we experience empathy? Why do we help some people, and leave others at the roadside? Why do our minds get overloaded? And so on.

This is one of the few situations in life where I find it useful to have studied philosophy. Aristotle nailed this one about twenty-three hundred and sixty years ago.

Aristotle said there were four kinds of causes, that is, explanations of how a thing came about. They are, in his terms: a material cause, a formal cause, an efficient cause, and a final cause. In my own sloppy formulation, here’s what he meant:

Material cause: Why is Jake so unobservant?   Because he’s a teenager.

Formal cause: Why do we find Two and a Half Men funny? Because it uses most of the rules of TV humor.

Efficient cause: Why is Alan on the floor? Because his brother Charlie hit him.

Formal cause: Why is Berta so caustic? Because that’s how they script maids on TV shows.

  

Most of the ‘why’ questions that neuro-management purports to answer are of the third type: efficient causes. Why do we feel empathy? Because “mirror neurons fire both when a person is in action, and when he or she observes someone else engaged in the same action,” to quote the Salon article.

If the other three ‘causes’ are hard for you to understand, it’s not because Aristotle was obtuse, or dumb; it’s because our culture has dumbed down the concept of ‘why’ into primarily efficient-cause-addicts.

Because of the mirror-neuron answer, one researcher claims, "We used to say, metaphorically, that ‘I can feel another’s pain.’ But now we know that my mirror neurons can literally feel your pain." [emphasis added]

Ah, now we know why. Because we know of mirror neurons. Got it.

Now let me point out the emperor’s clothes.

Efficient causes may be few in number—but they are infinite in the ways in which they can be expressed. Try these answers to “why do we feel empathy?”

a.    because mirror neurons fire both when a person is in action and…

b.    because strong feelings in others evoke strong feelings in us

c.    because we have a capacity for sensing others’ pain

d.    because our hearts reach out to others

e.    because common experiences unite us

f.     porque experiencias en comun parecen que unitarnos.

Who is to say one of these explanations is ‘better’ than another? Especially the last one, which we recognize as ‘merely a translation’ of the preceding explanation. But—aren’t they all just translations? Some use chemistry, some use poetry, some use metaphor. One uses Spanish.

The belief that one version of an efficient cause is better than another is nothing more than a conceit of the last few hundred years, in which the paradigm of physics has been crowned king of all knowledge forms. 

And the belief that we ‘know’ once a truth is phrased in neurological terms something that we didn’t ‘know’ before it was so phrased is just, well, ignorant.

Why Nonetheless Rock is On to Something

The above notwithstanding, a dear friend recommended Rock’s new book, so I bit the bullet. The first thing I noticed was a great irony: Rock begins his book with a metaphor.

“After several attempts to explain the brain in different ways, I decided to structure this book like a play.” He goes on to say the play has four Acts, each with several scenes, and an intermission. The acts and scenes consist of Paul and Emily, Mr. and Ms. Everyperson, going through the struggles of daily life.

It is ironic, I think, that a neuro-management thinker chooses to lead with a metaphor. And it continues. For example:

Think of the prefrontal cortex as a stage in a small theater where actors play a part…to understand an idea, you bring new actors on the stage…to make a decision, you hold actors on the stage and compare them to one another…to recall information, you bring an audience member up on the stage…to memorize information, you need to get actors off the stage and into the audience.

Again, the irony thing.

But enough cheap shots. In fact, the metaphors are really good. The book is really good. It deals intelligently, and practically, with some really vexing issues of importance to all of us, especially in this day and age. 

How do we deal with information overload? What price is paid when we multi-task? How can we collaborate? How can we generate insights? And how can we effect change?

I must say—though I’m only early on in the book—I’m impressed. Good stuff, well written, practical–and most importantly, well-conceived.

And, if I’m honest, I have to suspect that Rock could not have written those metaphors, nor organized the information, nor made it so practical, had he not done considerable research in the ‘language’ of neuro-etc.

So where do we net out on Aristotle vs. Rock? I still think anyone’s claims to the superiority of knowledge based on hard science are over-done; it’s symptomatic of a world that worships surgery over acupuncture, for example.

But there’s a lot to be said for translating work into various languages. When Shakespeare said, “a rose by any other name would smell the same,” it has a way of sticking with us better than the same concept as expressed by, say, Noam Chomsky. 

Opera may sound better in Italian than in German. And much of what we need to know about the mind works well in the language of neuro-whatever. Buy Rock’s book; it’s written in human, about being human, by a human.

TrustedAdvisor.com: The Trust Reader Volume 5

Welcome to May’s ebook, Volume 5 of the TrustReader.  The TrustReader series announces the publication of new articles on the Trusted Advisor website.

This month’s issue consists of three customer-focused articles.  We lead with the psychological paradox that lies at the heart of selling.  

There is always a tension in business, between the needs of the buyer and the needs of the seller.  The salesperson’s inner psychology operates at the knife-edge between those two.  

A salesperson wants to sell.  But a customer doesn’t want to be ‘sold.’  There are four possible ways for this tension to play out: three of them are bad.  The Paradox of Selling is about the One Right Way to think about selling.  It’s one of my favorites. 

The other two articles are given one-page summaries with links.  They are:

Your Customer Is Your Competitor Is Your Partner (originally published in Businessweek.com),  and 

The Only Two Screening Decisions You Have to Make

GET THE TRUST READER VOLUME 5 HERE

I welcome your comments, and  hope you’ll pass along this copy to friends and colleagues who might enjoy it. 

Thanks, 

Charlie Green

Trust Matters: The Trust Reader Volume 5

Welcome to May’s ebook, Volume 5 of the TrustReader.  The TrustReader series announces the publication of new articles on the Trusted Advisor website.

This month’s issue consists of three customer-focused articles.  We lead with the psychological paradox that lies at the heart of selling.  

There is always a tension in business, between the needs of the buyer and the needs of the seller.  The salesperson’s inner psychology operates at the knife-edge between those two.  

A salesperson wants to sell.  But a customer doesn’t want to be ‘sold.’  There are four possible ways for this tension to play out: three of them are bad.  The Paradox of Selling is about the One Right Way to think about selling.  It’s one of my favorites. 

The other two articles are given one-page summaries with links.  They are: Your Customer Is Your Competitor Is Your Partner (originally published in Businessweek.com),  and The Only Two Screening Decisions You Have to Make.

GET THE TRUST READER VOLUME 5 HERE

I welcome your comments, and  hope you’ll pass along this copy to friends and colleagues who might enjoy it. 

Thanks, 

Charlie Green

Relationships and Transactions, Clients and Markets

The Goldman Sachs story, such a headliner only weeks ago, is suddenly yesterday’s news, swept away by news of oil slicks, a trillion-dollar Euro bailout, and a hung jury in the UK.

Too bad, because I think there’s a deep lesson for us to learn. I for one haven’t figured it out. So I really want your help here. Those of you with a talent for economics and social sciences, please log in and comment on the following: I’m still trying to work this one out.

Trading Business is Crowding Out Client Business

Goldman Sachs went public in 1999. Many of us still think of it as an investment bank, involved largely in M&A work, advising companies on strategic decisions, and managing assets.

But in recent years, the company has become dominated by the business of trading. In 2009, 76% of its revenue came from its trading group.  (Not coincidentally, so did its CEO Lloyd Blankfein). Investment banking revenue was only 10.6% of revenue last year, having declined in dollar and percentage terms the last two years.

Goldman Sachs is not mainly an investment bank, and hasn’t been for some time now. It’s mainly a trading organization. Yet it hasn’t come to grips with that fact—nor have the rest of us.

Goldman’s Annual Report proudly lists its 13 Business Principles. The very first of them is: “Our clients’ interest always come first. Our experience shows that if we serve our clients well, our own success will follow.”

A lofty principle indeed. But how well does it apply to a trading business? Let me suggest—not well indeed. Goldman’s answers under oath in front of Congress showed their discomfort with the conflict between their past principles and their current business model. To a great extent, their answers about trading business boiled down to ‘caveat emptor.’ Which, I would argue, is not such a crazy answer at all when it comes to a trading business.

Goldman has gotten a bum rap for being accused of violating its client-focus principles in its trading business. The fact that they can’t articulately defend themselves doesn’t make them any less prescient than the Senators who berated them with equal lack of clarity.

Relationships vs. Transactions

In Sergio Leone’s The Good, the Bad and the Ugly, Eli Wallach’s character Tuco was fond of uttering statements beginning with, “There are two kinds of people in this world, my friend—those who __, and those who ___.”

To borrow Tuco’s construct, there are two kinds of businesses in this world: transactional, market-based trading businesses, and relationship-driven, client-focused businesses. Wall Street trading of CDOs, derivatives and SUV’s are of the former type; investment banking is (used to be, anyway) of the latter.

A friend tells me how he was recruited from college to trade bonds on Wall Street:

"There were 20 of us in the room. The recruiter came in and yelled in a loud voice, “Who here runs on fear and greed?’ Me and my pal timidly raised our hands; the rest were shocked. ‘The rest of you can leave,’ the guy said; ‘I’ve got my boys right here,’ pointing to me and my buddy. And I never looked back."

Most of the massive growth in the share of GDP that the financial sector has claimed in recent years—I think—has come from trading. (Data, anyone?). But it’s not Wall Street alone.

The ‘trading’ model has been the darling of Chicago economists, CNBC commentators, corporate strategists, ideology-driven MBAs and at least one major US political party for several decades now. It has been applied, with varying degrees of success, to running social institutions from prisons to elementary schools to public sector pension funds. Monetize it, put it out for bid, incentivie it, and let the cleansing forces of markets work their magic.

At the same time, we have become much more aware of the importance of ongoing relationships in business. Concepts like loyalty, holistic supply-chain management, CSR and corporate culture are moving us in the opposite direction—humanizing business, or least trying to connect society with business.

The Model of the future: Trading? Or Client-based?

What happens when these two worlds collide?  Think of Match.com–a market-driven approach to highly personal relationships. 

As the world becomes more interconnected, these two views of the world come into conflict. In finance—in which innovation has been forgiven if it increases ‘liquidity’—interdependence has come to be a curse. Push on one block in an interlinked trading world, and you get systemic chaos. The liquidity isn’t always worth the stress.

On the other hand, if you’re not careful about client-based industry models, you get corruption, sloppiness and lack of innovation.

I’m trying to figure out the principles that suggest when we need one, and when the other. It’s got me a bit stumped, to be honest.

But here’s what I do know. Market-based, trading-based industry models should never again be confused with free-range, unregulated operators. No doubt there were peddlers of poisonous snake-oil who thought the creation of the FDA was a major step toward socialism. They were wrong, much as the laissez-faire critics of financial reform are wrong now. Their argument is always the same: the public just needs more education. 

No, it doesn’t: it needs fairly regulated casinos, lotteries, markets and trading exchanges. Nothing wrong with caveat emptor as long as the rules for entry to the casino are clear. (Don’t forget: the natural and quick result of an unregulated market is a monopoly.  Pure competition is highy unstable.)

But even more, the pendulum needs to swing. Trust in trading businesses is limited to things like transparency of data and track records. Quantifiable, metricizable trust has got its limits, humanly and economically.  Useful?  You betcha.  Plenty of legitimate business operations need clean markets to hedge plenty of business uncertainties. But that’s still pretty narrow trust.

Trust in relationship businesses is far richer and deeper, because it deals with the people for whom business is supposed to be operated. Here you’re talking about motives, relationships, connections, synergies, collaboration.  Not only more meaningful, but economically far richer than the zero-sum I-win-you-lose nature of trading transactions.

We need more of that kind of trust.