Trusted Advisors: Are You Joking?
A doctor, a lawyer and a rabbi all walk into a bar.
The bartender says: “What is this, some kind of joke?’”
Notice: It’s never a manufacturer, a schoolteacher and a dancer who walk into the bar and serve as setup-lines for our jokes. Instead, it’s those who should be our most trusted advisors: doctors, lawyers, spiritual leaders.
Ever wonder why?
I am one who trusts. I strongly believe that the vast majority of people in each of these professions, or callings, can be trusted with my life. And yet I still find the doctor-lawyer-preacher jokes pretty funny. Which got me thinking about why these folks are the protagonists of so many stories and jokes.
Here are three reasons I came up with:
1. Because these are meant to be respected professions, it’s easy to laugh at the bad apples and contrarian behavior.
2. Because we need our doctors and lawyers and spiritual leaders to be truly trustworthy advisors, the experience of dealing with them can be pretty emotional. We are, in many cases, entrusting them with our lives, our money, our most personal family matters and more.
Trust is risky – the very definition of trust means we are taking a risk in relying on the advice, actions or discretion of someone else. And that can be scary. With so much at stake, we need the release that humor offers when dealing with serious, scary themes.
3. Perhaps the greatest reason these trusted advisor are so prominent in jokes is that they represent different aspects of ourselves, internal paradoxes we are trying to manage and integrate. The doctor –the body, or the physical; the lawyer – the head, or the intellectual; and the rabbi/priest/preacher — the heart, or the spiritual. These jokes are a form of stories—metaphors for aspects of life.
My Musings and Yours
These are my musings about the doctor, lawyer and rabbi who just walked into my bar. Seriously, now, let’s share a beer and talk this through.
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