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Trust Tip 20: Stop Closing the Sale

by Charles H. Green on Monday, November 20, 2006 (post #20)


For those of you in business development and sales, what would you say is the most important aspect of that process?

Here’s what the market thinks. Or, at least what Amazon’s search algorithm produces when the word “sales” is linked to a related term:

Sales                         302,410
Sales price                24,969
Sales pitch                11,797
Sales meeting            5,608
Sales close                  5,390
Sales leads                  5,270
Sales buyer                4,756
Sales quality              4,616
Sales presentation  4,610
Sales decision           3,041
Sales qualify                  691
Sales screen                  597

I’ll talk another time about the issue of price. (Doncha love how sales “pitches” get mentioned nearly three times as much as “presentations?”).

Let's focus on closing—clearly a big deal to people who must persuade others for a living. What’s the relationship of trust to closing?

Here it is:

If you stop trying to close, you’ll build trust. And you’ll close more.

And yes, that’s a paradox. So is much of life. Here’s why it works.

First, why do you want to “close” the deal? The usual answers are:

a. to get my sale now
b. because if they leave, they won’t come back
c. because they need that little “push” to make a decision
d. because closing uncovers objections that need to be overcome.


The first reason is selfish and will reduce trust; you deserve a “no” if that’s all you’re up to, because it’s manipulative.

The second is only a disguised version of the first.

The third infantilizes the customer; fine for the emotionally needy, not for most competent buyers.

The fourth—to identify and overcome objections—is the most serious. It comes from a belief that buying is about rational decision-making.

If they haven’t bought, so the logic goes, there must be a reason. If I can uncover the reason, I will remove the blockage to their buying. Repeated attempts to close (the ABC rule, Always Be Closing) make sense based on this logic. And it doesn’t have to be manipulative.

But it’s still not quite right. As Jeffrey Gitomer puts it, “the buying decision is made emotionally, and justified rationally.” Lawyers, consultants and accountants think this doesn’t apply to their clients, but it most often does.

When buyers buy, it isn’t because their objections have been met; it’s because they’ve gotten comfortable with the decision. And the chief road to comfort is not through a rational litany of point-counterpoint, but through a human process of being listened to, clarifying issues, and envisioning outcomes.

Which late-discussion question do you think is better?

1. Are you ready to buy now?
2. What would you like to do now?

The first question, whether you say it that way or use similar words, is what’s usually called closing. It’s ultimately all about you, the seller. And the customer knows it.

The second question, whether you say it that way or use similar words, is all about the customer. The subtext says “the timing is yours, the next steps are yours—I’m here to be of help to you. What do you want to do?”

The second question isn’t “closing.” But it closes better than the first question.

And that’s the paradox.



Charles H. Green, author of Trust-Based Selling and co-author of The Trusted Advisor, is a consultant and speaker on trust issues for some of the world's best companies. He has written about trust in business relationships at Trust Matters since 2006. Read more...


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steve smith said

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Charles,

Thanks for your post on "closing" the sale. I bought a car this weekend, and the person I bought it from had ZERO closing techniques. She simply tried to help me make an informed decision, even lending me her computer to do research on Edmunds.com. She had nothing to hide.

It's a hard lesson to comprehend, especially the less experienced you are. I think before anyone would buy a more client-first approach to business, they would need to ask an ironic question; what’s in it for me? I think the ironic answer is that the less we focus on our needs first, the more likely our needs will be met.  

For example, if you’re a salesperson for IBM (or any company), in a high-performance culture, the pressure is on. Like every salesperson, you have a monthly quota. Hitting your quota could mean many things: commission, promotion, reputation, college tuition, weddings, house payments, retirement, and so on. With that pressure, you have a sales presentation to make on a several-hundred-thousand-dollar proposal. If you walk into that meeting and begin making your presentation with your focus first and foremost on your needs—to hit your numbers and get your commission—are you more or less likely to make the sale? I think less likely. 

 

As soon as the client senses a me-first intent from you, that intent taints the interaction on both sides. You may oversell product features, rush through a technical explanation, mistake understanding for agreement and enthusiasm, smooth over objections, or push too hard for the close. As the client feels your intent, they grow suspicious of what you say, become guarded about what they say, and don’t give you access to information or people they otherwise would. In turn, their trust in you goes down, you lose the sale and your company loses the revenue. In fact, maybe you have a better product than your competitors, and the client loses the economic benefit of not getting the best solution. Everybody loses.

 

In sales, the more important it is to meet your numbers, the more important it is to forget about your numbers and help clients meet their numbers.

Anyway, thanks for your good work and thoughts.

Steve


posted on Monday, November 20, 2006

Maureen Rogers said

Charles - I've never been in sales, but as a marketing person I've been through all sorts of sales training programs (PSS, Solution Selling, etc.), participated in all sorts of "desperation deal" sales calls, and sat through all sorts of interminable pipeline reviews - and sales management harangues. Your non-close closing technique is as elegant and profound as anything I've ever heard about "closing".

Steve - Loved your comment. It reminded me of the time when our local Little League had a raffle, and the kid who sold the most raffle tickets was going to win a prize. One little girl approached my husband and me as we sat in the stands watching a game and asked us to buy a ticket. I asked her what we might win. She looked at me increduously.

"You don't win anything," she answered. "I do."

Too often I've seen sales people in action who seemed to have the same philosophy!

posted on Monday, November 20, 2006

Philip J. McGee said

Charlie,

Congratulations on yet another really good piece.

I've been a sales guy for some 40 years and my sense is that we, that is us sales people, are, by definition, always closing or why would we be talking to prospective clients?

Now, having said that, my idea of closing departs radically from that which is typically considered a close.  I have never tried the "hard close" because I think it's repulsive and the last thing I want to do is repel a prospect.  Yes, I call them prospects because that'e what they are to me.  I wouldn't be talking to them otherwise! 

Many of my "closes" are of the educational variety.  I may be trying to determine if there are other markets that might benefit from my product or service.  It's still a close.

My sense is that denying that I'm always trying to close will breed distrust in the mind of the prospect.  We both know why I'm there.

As an aside, when I get a call from someone who starts the conversation with "this is not a sales call" I know I'm being lied to and I respond that I only accept calls from people trying to sell me something.

Keep up the great work.

All the best,

Phil

posted on Thursday, November 30, 2006

Charlie (Green) said

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Welcome to first-time commenter Phil McGee.  Phil is a CEO who came up the sales route and definitely knows whereof he speaks. 

What I hear in Phil's comment is that he combines the openness in Maureen's little girl tale with the clean motives in Steve's example, and it's a powerful combination.

posted on Friday, December 1, 2006

Ian Welsh said

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Lord knows I'm not a salesperson, but I do think Phil's right about keeping the motives clear - that you wouldn't be talking to them if it weren't for a sale.  I've had a few customers become friends, but mostly if I'm calling a customer it is about business.  On the other hand, the "I'm not going to sell you something I honestly don't think you need" is worth keeping as well. It's the sale at any cost mentality that used to make me despise some of the agents I used to deal with in the insurance business - and you can be sure they didn't get referrals from me. 

Of course, in the 5 years I did insurance backend sales support, there couldn't have been more than 10 agents who actually impressed me as looking out for their clients first and themselves second.  But those few were like gold, and I'll say this - they tended to be agents with bigger books of business.  All the big agents weren't like that, not even close - but almost everyone who was like that was very succesful.  Which was nice to see - good guys don't have to finish last.

Want to know who good agents are - talk to the customer service people at an insurer about which agents actually support their clients post sale.

Smartest guy I ever knew gave support to clients who weren't his, who couldn't get agent support from the guys who originally sold the policies.

Strangely enough, when those clients needed insurance later, they went to him.  That didn't always work for him (some never did need insurance again), but I'm sure it did enough  for it to be more than worth it for him.

Often enough the right thing to do morally, is also the right thing to do for self-interest.

posted on Friday, December 1, 2006

jim leach said

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 I sell modular homes. this is the first yr. Sales are good, however, we have 3 prospects they have financing, land etc, and told me they are buying a home from me. things seemed to have slowed down . They haven't called or stopped by in 4 days,they know the contracts are ready and were excited about paying the deposit. where are they?

posted on Thursday, December 7, 2006



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